Often we hold back our gifts out of fear of failure and being judged. So what if somebody you care about does not like what you are up to? Yes - if playing it safe is your priority - better don´t step it up. `Cause guess what - I can guarantee you - whatever you do, and however you go about it - for sure there will be someone who disapproves.
And yet: How about our holding back is even a kind of stealing - do you really want to continue withholding your brilliance and gifts from the world - maybe even miss out on finding out for yourself, what they are - just to stay safe?
Please do show up! Fully! I want to see you shine! I believe it´s time for all of us to step onto the scene of life more fully, to discover and share our super-powers and to contribute authentically!
And for this - we need courage. I am courageous. It´s one of my gifts to share and bring to you. We need to give ourselves and each other premission to make mistakes, to try, fail, stumble - sit in the dirt - and get up again. Like a little kid learning to walk.
And to be witnessed in that, too. Feeling the shame. The pressure to perform. Once you are able to stay - right there, with all of it - a new kind of freedom opens up!
No more pretending we have it all figured out - and still going for it - let´s play, take ourselves less serious - and enjoy! ....
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I believe only when we give ourselves that permission, and compassionately support each other in that - only then - we learn to truly fly!
If you are interested in a free online group tapping on "Fear of success - old beliefs that keep you from shining bright" - please refer to my calendar , or do sign up for my newsletter now, to not miss out on any upcoming events! The next Tapping Session is scheduled for April, 7th!
So now, please do let me know - how have you failed recently? When did you feel excruciating shame recently? And what did you take away from that experience?
I´d love to hear your comments on this!